The recipe for a good leader is easy to describe but challenging to put into practice.
First, the follower must believe that the leader has their best interests in mind. Once that is established, the follower begins to trust the leader. From there, the follower willingly commits to the leader, which makes leadership relational and not contingent upon a position of authority.
Along the way, the leader will inevitably make mistakes. That is a given. The question becomes: How does the leader learn from failure to enhance the relationship with their followers and achieve organizational success? The answer lies in the leader’s ability to demonstrate humility, vulnerability and courage in the face of failure.
Humility allows the leader to consider other people’s thoughts, ideas and perspectives as they navigate the failure. It leads to improved listening, greater compassion and the opportunity for increased collaboration. In so doing, the leader demonstrates vulnerability by being more relatable to followers.
By being vulnerable, the leader creates a space where followers see that the leader is willing to admit failure while pressing forward to overcome adversity, which, over time, builds trusting relationships.
Consequently, the leader demonstrates courage by embracing uncertainty and not allowing themselves to be stifled by fear of failure. They see failure as an opportunity for growth and they use it as fuel to make future situations better.